How to become "unhurtable" - words by Abraham

I've met a guy on the internet with whom I talked on the phone 3 times a day for a week then we met on Saturday. We went on a moto ride with 5 of his friends, I felt happy, appreciating the freedom that such a ride gave me. Yet, at one point he suddenly told me the following "I don't know about you, whether it clicks for you or not, but I can speak for myself, it doesn't click". I was devastated and told him that I was sorry he felt this way because I already developed lots of sentiments towards him and I was attracted to him.

I told him "hey, I can take a cab and go back home if it's that uncomfortable for you to be with me, I appreciate your honesty, all is well". He was sunned by my response and immediately started to show me affection!!!! Once back home, he walked me to my apartment door and once in my home he started kissing me with passion. I was so confused! I then told him "you don't know what you are missing", thanked him for the ride and said goodbye.

I haven't heard from him in 4 days and suddenly he phoned me last night. Again, I could tell that he's playing mind games, my inner guidance was telling me that somehow he's very insecure and wants me to feel this way too.

All this to say, that I received an email from an Aber, a transcript of power words by Abraham on the subject of "unhurtable". Then to my surprise I found 2 videos by Abe about it!!! I created a castle as these words soothed me at a deep level.

I am sharing this story here so that anyone who is hurting right now get the information to go to YouTube and search "unhurtable" Abraham-Hicks.

POWERFUL stuff.

I adore Abe and Source loves and adores me. I love myself unconditionally no matter what this guy is thinking or telling me. I AM FREE of others opinions.

With deep appreciation for Abraham's teachings.

Joy-Lise

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Permalink Reply by Pat Graham-Block on June 1, 2009 at 9:18am: I had many "clarifying" experiences with the guys I dated and then, after I was clear about the type of person I really, really wanted to partner with - he showed up in the most fun and satisfying way!

(That was almost 20 years ago and what I fun ride it has been!)

Keep the faith and enjoy "gathering data from your contrasting experiences" as Abe calls them!

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Permalink Reply by Sierra on June 6, 2009 at 5:39pm: Thanks for sharing your story, Joy-Lise. I think you handled the situation very well and the contrast allowed you to remember that it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks. YOU are divine!; ▶ Reply to This

Permalink Reply by Joy-Lise on June 6, 2009 at 7:50pm: Hi Pat

Thank you so very much for sharing your love story with me. Very uplifting and I needed to read this exactly today. Spent the day at the museum where there was an exhibition on Yoko Ono and John Lennon - the favorite part to me was watching them kiss and hug (in slow motion). YUMMY! I said "Universe - this is what I want, true love, true intimacy, passion, and tenderness, peace and mutual appreciation".

Hugs to Divine Pat

Sierra

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Permalink Reply by Pat Graham-Block on June 11, 2009 at 4:15am: Sierra,

That is a fantastic Uni-Wink that showed up for you, in the museum!

Congrats! :-)

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Permalink Reply by Pat Graham-Block on June 11, 2009 at 4:40am: By the way, I just found this on the Abraham-Hicks.com website:

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Harmony or Cacophony?

You have more harmony points with every person on the planet than you have disharmony points, because there is much more of you that is in harmony with your Core than you realize or that most of you allow. The closer you come to being in harmony with your Source Energy, the more in harmony you are with each other. When you think about other people and what they think of you, do you understand that what they think of you has very little to do with what you are? It has mostly to do with the habits of thought that they have developed. It has more to do with them as thinkers than it does with you as the subject of their thought. If nothing is more important to you than that you feel good, you can form a fantasy about someone who is in your life and they will begin to modify to meet your fantasy, because Law of Attraction is a very powerful thing. When you decide that you want to feel good, and you reach for the vibration that feels good to you and you establish that as your Tone, either the people around you will be uplifted to join you in that vibration or, if their vibration is already very well chosen otherwise, they will clatter right out of your experience. But what happens to most of you is, while they are clattering out of your experience, you notice they're clattering. You begin to clatter too, and then they clatter right back into your experience, and you clatter together miserably and continually.

Excerpted from the workshop in Asheville, NC, on Saturday, September 5th, 1998
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Gotta' love Abe! :-)

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Permalink Reply by Joy-Lise on June 11, 2009 at 9:05am: I love the way you put it Pat - Uni-Wink, got to love that one! Thank you so very much

Pat Graham-Block said:
Sierra,

That is a fantastic Uni-Wink that showed up for you, in the museum!

Congrats! :-)

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Permalink Reply by Patricia b on June 28, 2009 at 8:01am: Pat!

I am happy to see you here! I am very interested in what you think about the quote I have excerpted from YOUR very interesing quote. This sounds different from the usual Positive Aspects focusing. Is it like "scripting"? This is something I could really use right now, and want to know a little more about what you think is entailed in this....

Thanks,
Pat

Pat Graham-Block said:
By the way, I just found this on the Abraham-Hicks.com website:

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Harmony or Cacophony?

you can form a fantasy about someone who is in your life and they will begin to modify to meet your fantasy, because Law of Attraction is a very powerful thing. .

Excerpted from the workshop in Asheville, NC, on Saturday, September 5th, 1998
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Gotta' love Abe! :-)

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Permalink Reply by Jay Atkinson on July 15, 2009 at 12:30am: Joy-Lise, this could not have been more appropriate to me right now. I thank you from my heart and you have reminded me of what is True. That after everything else, the ultimate truth is: I AM LOVED! We all are. No matter who or what we are or have done, Source/God loves us. I know this to be true because I have been in a not so good place, climbing up the Emotional Scale and slip-sliding away just as fast... remembering this one truth caught me and gave me a foot up several rungs. Bless you, dear lady...

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